My relationship.
Hello there. I'm new here and I really need an advice..or share your thoughts about my current long distance relationship situation. Last week, my bf disappeared..I mean suddenly I can't contact him.. I messaged him but he didn't replied. I was very worried if something happened to him..but then, he chatted me at night, on FB, he wanted space. then I said Okay . I gave him space.. after a day , he chatted me. without saying why he disappeared. I think something has happened on the day He disappeared. He post a video on his *** acc.. which is the place is far from his workplace and his caption was 'I Miss U'.. I asked him, who do you miss? he says he missed me .BUT the thing is..he can speak it to me .why should he posted a video..then something suspicious about the video.. There is a girl near him ..but I don't know who is she.. I asked my bf, he just said..'the place was crowded '... So, I just let it go.. Then, for the past few days..after his Missing in Action (MIA).. he acts different.. our communication becomes less.. He didn't even want to call me...or pick up my call.. (but, before this..we rarely call.. bcs he is busy..and he never initiate to call me either after he finished his work or whenever he is free)..I ask him, then he said he is busy. Then now.. he is Missing again hahaha. What should I do? I already tell him to just break up..but he didn't want . How?
@mireams54
i think you already know what’s going on but are hoping that isn’t the case. Sadly LDRs where you have never physically dated someone often are used for someone’s love and attention without intending to honor it.
To put it plainly, I am pretty sure your bf was using you for love and attention until he started to get some other girl’s attention who he knows in person. Now that he’s getting hers, he starts being more distant with you and ignoring you. When he isn’t getting her attention, he comes back to you for it instead knowing that you’re just waiting for him. He doesn’t want to break up because he doesn’t want to lose his back up option for attention but this isn’t going anywhere good. If I were you, I would dump his sorry a**.