Need Clarity! Who's wrong?
My boyfriend always tells me to inform him when I go out. Sometimes I forget and he gets angry. Eg: I went out today in a rush meet my friends and I totally forgot to notify. He called me and found I'm out with my friends. Got angry over it. I thought he was making a big deal out of it and I told him to be a bit mature about it. He told me that I should first go learn what mature relationship is. He thinks I'm wrong and I think he is. What do you guys think? Please do share your opinion on this situation.
This is not okay behavior in a relationship. It’s one thing just being concerned, it is another to want to have control on every second of your life. Being in a relationship does not mean you give up your autonomy. You’re allowed to go out with friends and you don’t have to ask him for permission or tell him anything because he’s not your father. I’m glad he’s a boyfriend and not a husband because this red flag is blaring. This controlling abusive behavior might just be the first thing he starts to do. If you let him, he will continue. Nip it in the bud. You’re worth more than what he can give you.
