Need help
New Here but I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half and in that time we have only see each other maybe 7 times she don't tell me how she feels and when I do her I just get awww or a smile face back I've tried many time to talk to her but she never answers I have felt alone for a while now but I'm in love with her and don't want anyone else but her actions are saying that she don't care if we talk or even spend time with each other is there anything I can do to get her to respond to me and to see that I want to be there at home with her
What will happen if you just show up at her house? How far do you live from her
@heatlightning
Ive asked her if she would be mad if I just showed up one day and all she said was why I don't want to show up and start any problems for her but it is something that I'm really thinking about doing
Why if she’s your partner does she not want to physically be with you
You have to figure out why and I know you love her and all but if it’s depressing you now you don’t want to prolong that
@heatlightning
I have tried many times to talk to her about have even told her how I was feeling but she don't reply to anything that I have said and when I ask if we are together she says duh or have I said differently but other then that she willnt reply to anything else and in the past I have tried to let go and move on but I never could give her up so I guess I just need to face the fact that I will always only want her
Unless You’re completely cool with the relationship continuing as it is then you’re going to have to figure out what’s going on.
@heatlightning
I just wish she would talk to me about things and actually show me that we are in a relationship in any way at all I just don't know why she willnt do that
Unless she’s protecting her kids or something it seems ulterior motive is at play
For any relationship to be healthy, there must be sufficient communication, so tell your girlfriend that you guys have to talk about this and that it is very serious. I agree with the post above saying just show up at her house, just see what happens. If she gets annoyed and cannot understand your perspective, then she is not worth your time... No relationship should be this draining. I can understand how it is very difficult to potentially let go of someone you love dearly, but if needed, it just has to be done sometimes. Best of luck.
@playcandies
I have tried many times to talk to her but she never responds to me about what I said she always changes the subject to something totally different but when I ask her if we are still together she say duh or have I told you any different
@ivoryMap7368 That sounds very odd. Try your best to see if something might be going on where she lives or if she is experiencing something she is afraid to speak up about. If not, then this relationship is just pure toxicity and I am afraid to say that it is best to let her go.
@playcandies
Thanks for your advice