Repationship and friendship
Hi All, I am new here and I wanted to validate my feelings.
So my boyfriend and I are dating from last 7 years. He loves me a lot and our parents knows about us. We are in LDR from the beginning of our relationship.
The only problem that I face is that he hides whenever he is out with his female friends. He hides because I get upset whenever he hides it. But then once he informed and went for a late night movie show. I got upset because I am not fine with it. Off lately that girl is hanging out with him and his guy friends almost every weekend and sometimes stay at their place although the flat is a sharing flat but this really bothers me.
and when i get upset he says I don’t trust him. I know there is nothing going on between them but still it bothers me to the core.
are these feelings valid or am I just overthinking?
@scarletCoconut242
Well, (miss) coconut 🥥 I don't think I have any reliable good advice. But taking this from a guy who's never been in a relationship and has spent too much time online regarding my intimacy issues and think everyone is out to get me, and is horrendously afraid of my opposite sisters of the world. Like I don't know how his mind works but maybe it's a good thing, I mean maybe. I'm probably the worst for advice about this. Get to know his friends maybe? 😁🫥
Hi, Thanks for listening. We are in long distance its difficult.
@scarletCoconut242
Yayyyy I did good
@scarletCoconut242
Has he ever given you a real reason to not trust?
do you want to go through this at every time a situation arises when another female is present?
in order to Prove themselves trustworthy ( i think from what you wrote he is ) it requires you to be able to Trust and if you cannot you might want to ask of yourself why.
Hi, few years back he kinda got attached to someone and somewhere I am still not over that incident.
