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Hey guys, I’m not sure why I am feeling this way. But I get so affected when my boyfriend follows girls on Social Media. How do I stop feeling disturbed? I can’t seem to focus on anything. It’s affecting me a lot. I want to feel like I don’t want to care but I can’t seem to do it
Hey @friendlyPear8686 , hear you, can understand how difficult it is when we are getting affected by something we try not to , it is okay to feel insecure and get affected when he follows other people, but you're also allowed to feel safe and trusted in the relationship. Do you feel there's a past situation that is letting you feel more affected ? Also very important to communicate feelings when in a relationship, how do you feel about telling your partner about your feelings? Maybe he could reassure you in someway or least you'll talk about it and feel a bit lighter in the head ❤
There are many clarifications here. How old are you now? Do you have an official marriage or just a relationship? I had the experience of student relations. We filmed a room together. Then it seemed so easier. But the availability of new dating is a good marker to check the sincerity of a person. Those relations were destroyed because of treason. But I have experience using online chats here - https://www.myblackpartner.com I noticed that there are people (guys and girls) who hide their real relationship to start a new acquaintance. But it was unacceptable for me. I made a couple of incorrect elections but learned to see such people from the first phrase. My opinion is such. No one can fix an adult person who wants to act in a certain way. Believe me. He understands what is doing badly. If he did not refuse it after your request, it's time to think about starting something new. This is my experience and I say relying on it.