Unstable/communication issues/tired/break??- any advice is huge.
My boyfriend and I met 3 years ago in college and have been together ever since. We’ve been through a lot together. We’ve seen & helped each other at our worst. I’m currently at my worst and I don’t think he knows how to help or what to do. I’ve been dealing with anxiety & depression for about 5/6 years. I’m currently at a low point right now and I’m unintentionally taking out on him & our relationship. I know he is not responsible for my happiness, I am. But frankly, I don’t know how to make myself happy anymore. We both have explosive personalities, which makes communication pretty tough sometimes. I just don’t know what to do, we don’t live together, I just, I don’t know. I’m not even really sure what I’m looking for here. I guess I’m just tired of being tired, of never catching a break. He doesn’t take responsibility for his faults. He talks and says A LOT. But his actions never defends what he saws. I’m huge on “actions speak louder than words” & “if he wanted to, he would” ... I think I’m just rambling at this point.
No. You're right actions do speak louder than words. But at some moments it's hard for the other person to even know what to do to even help you. But to the doesn't take responsibility for his faults. If he's not even trying a little bit then idk what to tell ya