What am I doing wrong?
I recently met this girl on tinder and we hit it off very good I should say and we’ve been talking for a few days now and it seems we both want something serious together but after pretty much saying that I’m serious about me and you if you are and that if we both feel the same way let’s do something about it but as of right now I’m sitting on left opened almost an hour ago, maybe I might’ve came off a little strong idk but I honestly felt the vibe was right so I don’t understand… someone give me advice on what to do and possibly get her back cuz this girl is everything I want
Patience is a must! A few days of hitting it off can be very misleading. Keep getting to know her, give it time. Do not go into "did I say something wrong" mode with her and ask her if she's mad at you or something. I can tell you from my own experience on both sides of the situation that it comes off as sooooo needy and desperate lol. If there's really something between you guys, give it a good pace, don't let it consume you, and let it develop naturally, not by force. Good luck!
I mean it is tinder people dont usually go there for serious relashinships! You seem like a nice guy u deserve better than tinder girls who prob just messin around! I honestly think she was just flirting and is leaving u on read bc she doesnt want u to think she wants something serious now :( sorry:( thats just my opinion tho!
@RFrederick258 Give it at least a couple days to see if she responds. I agree tinder is not the site for serious relationships. Try others like hinge, okc, match.com, etc. if that's what you want. Also online dating is very hit or miss; you have to wade through being ghosted, going on 1-2 dates and they aren't interested, etc. Over time you will find a better match after going through that process, but it does take lowering expectations a little and just seeing it as meeting new people until something really clicks and last longer.