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dependency on my bf

User Profile: considerateLemon9837
considerateLemon9837 September 18th, 2024

I feel like i am too emotionally dependent on my boyfriend. We do long distance relationship and if his tone slightly changes or if he ignores me for a bit i start to feel depressed and having an anxiety attacks even tho i was totally fine before that. He said hes emotionally unavailable right now and i should give him more time. But i feel like i couldnt. What should i do? 

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 September 18th, 2024

@considerateLemon9837

I understand what you mean in long distance is hard for whatever reason you are long distance.  We get concerned if they do not text/ call / message when we think they should or they did yesterday or whatever ...

Sometimes we get one or two words that we may think too much about like " what did they mean by this? "   

The hardest part is we see glimpses of their life and if most communication is by text we miss most of the communication that happens when in person like body language and tone etc... i know when i was doing long distance it is work to come up with message each day that did not sound repetitive and share things without writing a book.