feeling bored
i feel bored in my relationship. ive been dating my bf for just over a year now and i feel bored. sex and intimacy feels like a chore. some days i dont even want to kiss him. i find myself becoming more easily annoyed with him over absolutely nothing. he is literally the perfect bf ever too, he treats me so well and everyone loves him. how can i get over feeling bored or stuck?
@brig665
Boredom as you have described is what most feel if there is not an emotional connection. If intimacy feels like a chore and you do not feel much of anything. Sooner or later you may meet someone else that make you feel differently and your "comfortable " will no longer be enough. I can understand feeling that way after 20 years or long term but one year in you are missing the excitement and thrill of being with someone that is not boring even if you are doing nothing but sitting in a room.
The description of "perfect" bf of .......treating you well, doing things for you, and others like him sounds great if he is your personal assistant not a romantic partner.
