ABDL Story/Support
Hello, I'm bigbabyK,
I know at times there are many questions we have about ourselves and thoughts about the things we like and the way we live when others aren't around. Well, I've come to grips that I'm and adult baby. There are several misconceptions about those that are labeled in this category. It can even be a scary thing to admit or even accept at first but it's not. I'm straight, and a virgin waiting for marriage I just happen to like wearing diapers when I'm stressed or filled with anxiety, I've also wanted to help other members or listeners who may experience this! Hope this is helpful!!
@BigbabyK
Thank you for sharing!
So you wear them just to help with stress? I'm really curious about this.
@Wolfchild13
so, they help manage stress when I have a bad day it's support and comfortable
its only diapers or just everything baby highchairs bibs exc exc ?
@BigbabyK
Hello to this thread that I hope is not dead.
So, I'm at a crossroads with my fetish. I'm also an ABDL, though I've never indulged in it. I've never been able to.
Long Story Short. I'm married, and when dating I thought I was upfront with my fiancee about my fetish. We talked about it a few times, and she even said she would participate with me. During a really stressful time, I wanted to be babied, and I brought it up to her. We had a huge fight. And we've been struggling with it ever since. We finally came to a point where she let me baby her, but not fully, and it was good. But she can only do it when she's in the right headspace which is rare now.
Now, it's another stressful time. Work is really ridiculous and filled with uncertainty, we're expecting our third child, and due to that, there is a moratorium on all physical sexual contact. I can't stop thinking about this stuff, and I try to just bring it up to let it out of my head but I feel like recently all I'm talking about is sex, domination, and BDSM, and that's while trying to leave out my fetish stuff. I've tried therapy, but my commute is an hour and a half every day and so I can't go to see anyone. I have no one else to talk to about this stuff. I tried to talk to some people in the community online, but my wife was uncomfortable with me talking to other people about something sexual.
I want to make her happy and not make her feel like she can't satisfy me. I also want to be true to myself. I'm searching for a third path, and I am so afraid that there isn't one. I'm hoping that there is someone here in this counseling forum who can help me.