Any help
I have apparently been masterbating while im asleep and I have no memory of doing so. The only way I found out I was because my boyfriend told me I kept him up all night with my masterbating and moaning and groaning. He insists that he doesn't please me sexually. But that is far from the truth he does I don't know l why I masterbate in my sleep because he does please me in that department. This has really taking a toll on our relationship and I dont know how to fix it.
@reservedYard293 I mean I guess you could try taking some melatonin for deeper sleep or something, but honestly it sounds like he is very insecure if he feels upset by a sex dream. Lots of people just have weird dreams sometimes. You can try to maybe compliment him more about how you find him attractive, but he ultimately has to work on his own self-esteem/insecurities.
When I do it makes it worse with the masterbating while ima sleep:(
I have to agree with the other member. It could be he's insecure with himself.
If I had a good boyfriend who discovered this about me, we'd probably have a good laugh about it. Then I'd tell him he was welcome to join in if he found me doing this.
And to be honest... there are lots of men out there who love watching a woman pleasure herself, and they get excited about it.
But yes... I'd say he's insecure with himself. You should discuss this with him. And maybe remind him that what you do in your sleep is beyond your control.
Lots of women have strong sexual urges (men too). If he's not understanding of this, then just remember... someone out there will understand and accept this, someone who is more emotionally secure and mature.
