Fetish of being dommed by a girl?
I'm only 19 and I really wish that I could be under the control of another girl my age. I wish I could just chat with them about sexual things in the open as well as just be more open about each other in general.
I even sometimes wish that a girl would become almost like my dom. Controlling everything I do, including things like masturbation?
It's really embarrassing to admit this but I just want a little bit of help. Any advice would be okay.
This is actually a common and natural fantasy, nothing to be ashamed of! But I understand that there are a lot of taboos that make things harder to accept. I believe it would help you to work on this feeling and try to "rationalize" this sense of guilt you have. Whenever it arises, you can ask yourself: what is the rational reason for feeling bad about it, if it's something consensual and desired by both the people involved? Treating your feeling as a rational problem will help you realize that there is nothing wrong, and with time and practice, you'll internalize this thought!
And once you'll feel completely comfortable with it, you can try to pursue your fantasy. Without this sense of guilt/wrongness, it will feel good and you'll be happy! To each their own, some people have fantasies of this kind and it's ok, it doesn't make you a worse person than others!
Hello, idk where this is posting but I'd like to get some support from a listener in a sexual nature topic. Please and thank you
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alot of guys feel the way you do i as a girl kinda feel the same way too it feels wierd to me but you will get over it