Giving up my Pregnancy Fetish
So, I'm a 34 year old male and I've been in a relationship for five years and four months as of today. We have a two-year-old daughter and we plan on having no more children. However, since I was young, I've had a fetish for pregnant women and baby bumps. Every time I would go out in public, I would approach pregnant women at random, ask them about the baby (gender, due date, name, etc.), and then I would ask them if I could touch their bump. While some women have allowed me to do so without question, a lot of women are becoming uncomfortable these days. I've been given a warning by one police officer, almost kicked out of Walmart twice by one manager, and given a royal chewing out by another at the same Walmart. I am having a tough time letting go of this fetish and I sometimes get cravings to rub someone else's bump, much to the disappointment and frustration of my girlfriend, who is considering leaving me. I just wish I wasn't turned on by pregnant women. If anybody can point me in the right direction, I would gladly appreciate it as I am becoming increasingly frustrated with myself. In fact, last Monday I was caught by my girlfriend touching the bump of a woman who was 33 weeks along.
Hey! I can understand how it can be hard to live with that sort of a fetish. While there are some safer, ways to cope with this you can try:
1. there are some sites where you can access such material and or there are discussion boards relating to this
2. There are other kinks you can try, see if that work out for you? there are sites available for that too!
Lastly, I would like to say this: Dont get in trouble, if you go to jail itll be on your record, it will stick with you till you die. So be wise, dont get into trouble please
@gatointexas everyone has fetishes and sexual fixations. That is a natural effect of development.
It sounds like you are also struggling with a compulsion so you might want to try to get help for that, more than trying to alter what arouses you.
I agree. What you describe sounds like a fetish that turned into a compulsion or coping mechanism. You do this to feel assured of something, though it's not my place to say what. I suspect if you seek help in this area the urges will ease.
