I am confused about my sexuality
Hello,
I'm 19 years old male, and I like girls. I am attracted to female body, I fell in love with a girl and I feel warm about that. I don't like boys in any way, so I am heterosexual. But, very often I fantasize about being girl, having a female body. I don't act like a girl and I'am not feminised, I don't want to change my gender, I just somehow like being that way.
That sexual drive when I fantasize about being girl is stronger than my hetero drive. I can do both, but this thing with girl is much easier and more pleasent, but I feel guilt and dirty. I'm not sure about all this. Do you have any advice? Thanks!
First and foremost, know that you do not need to feel 'guilt' or 'dirty.' There is notthing evil, dirty or worth of guilt in feeling what you feel. You are not harming anyone.
As the person before has mentioned, gender can be very complex. It is good that you are giving it some thought - that will help you know yourself better and lead a happier life.
I wish I knew the name for how you feel, and that I could direct you to other people who know more on the matter. Is there any LGBTI+ group where you live, who can provide you with information, resources and support?
I wish I could help some more. Take care, dear. I hope you find the answers you seek.
i remember when i was younger, i used to envy women and how they get so much attention. i felt bad for being born a male. i think i know how you feel. i think as you get older, you might learn to appreciate the male body.
as men, we are said to be stronger than females. it's also said that females like strong men. our strength and height can also be distinguishing and attractive features that most men have, but that most women don't have. another thing is that they say the female body is smaller and weaker. that body type sometimes make women more susceptible to being preyed on, abused, and attacked by men and people. in fact, some might even say that the average female's body size and struture make most females overall more susceptible to the hazards of many environments that most men seem to be more immune or resistant to.
