I feel like a sex toy
I'm in love with my boyfriend, but I feel like he doesn't care about my sexual needs. He's perfect to me emotionally, but he's so selfish in bed. I need to talk to a guy for advice on how to handle it... this man brought me out of deep depression and got me to stop cutting myself. I've never been so in love, I just wish I didn't have to feel like his sex toy. I would appreciate it so much if you could help me... thanks for reading, at least..
His name is Anson, my name is Carena.
If you two have not done so already, the both of you need to sit down and talk about this since it is bothering you so much. It's important that he is considerate of all of your feelings, including how you feel during sex.
HeyCarena,
I am very glad that you posted this. I know this can be a very tough situation to be in, but there are definitely things you can try. As Dioniche has pointed out, you can try sitting down and having a conversation with him. Remember, he understoodyour depression and helped you through that. I'm sure he will understand what is going on through your mind right now. You never know what can happen unless you give it a shot! Remember, if you ever need to speak to me, I'll be here! Keep your head up!