Is DD/lg wrong?
So both me and my girlfriend are part of the community and this is our lifestyle, it's been like this for quite a while now. But lately I've been seeing tons of negative opinions on DD/lg with a lot of good arguments behind them backed by facts and examples. The more I read, the more it convinced me and the more I doubted myself and whether or not there's something wrong with me, because it sure as hell feels like there is. At this point, it makes me feel like I suffer some sort of mental disorder, which is wrong because a lot of the time (especially in my relationship) it isn't nessecarily sexual at all. But I really don't know.
Is DD/lg wrong?
@ChaoticKnight17
Hey there thanks for reaching out! Ddlg relationships given that you are both consenting adults are completely okay, sadly there is still a bunch if stigma on things that are outside the norm of that people think of a relationship. The thing is if you are alright with it and your partner is then do what makes you happy and makes you feel good! My question to you would be what do you personally think about being in a ddlg relationship? What feeling and thoughts do you have towards them? If it makes you happy go for it, don't let society or stigma tell you what to do because ultimately if you are consenting and it's legal it's what you want and that right there makes it okay!
@ChaoticKnight17
Hello! Well I think a lot of so called good arguments don't actually turn out to be good arguments, and evidence for these positions don't really hold up under scrutiny as they're often laden with misinformation and purposefully deceptive reasoning. But it sounds like something has convinced you, would you mind sharing what it is that you think it convincing about those arguments?