Is this a bad thing? (sex)
hey community.
during sex, i am always really really submissive and i dont know why. my last partner (ex) did not like it at all and always thought i do not want to touch them. and to be honest i do enjoy it better to be submissive and let them do things rather than doing them myself - when i do stuff myself i just often (not always) feel like really stressed.
has anyone else experienced this?
@dynamicHemlock1736 I've experienced both sides (being a Dom/top) and it's totally normal to feel the way you do. Some peple are naturally submissive (in and out of the bedroom), others are more Dominant.
Some even switch between the two roles depending on circumstance and partner.
It's a rich, deep world. Enjoy the ride!
@dynamicHemlock1736 I don't think labeling it as "bad" or "good" is helpful.. maybe look at it as is it fulfilling to you? Do you enjoy sex this way and do you feel like you are being fulfilled by it? Sex can be a wonderfully full experience for self expression and release. It could be worth it to spend some time alone exploring your sexuality. I think we all have both dominant and submissive characteristics within us that we can tap into, but sometimes there are blocks keeping us from sliding into that energy.
