Lack of Breasts
hello everyone. My name is Ramatulai and I'm 15. Now I know everyone here will probably say your young, there is no need to worry. At 15 I am 5'5 and I'm pretty skinny you can say. I got my period when I was 10, and I remember thinking, "yes boobs will come". But 5 years later I am still the same size as when I had started puberty. I'm not even an A cup, and all my friends who I complain to about lack of breasts day, they're not important or guys don't care or you're just a late bloomer. Of course they can say that because they ate all A cups and bigger. I dont this anyone else had an idea of how much this annoys me. I cant wear anything without thinking m my breasts are small. I'm not asking for C cups, an A cup would be nice. Literally every girl in my school has bigger boobs than me and I am.not lying or exaggerating. I'm not sure if there was a reason why I have small boobs. I do remember when I was 12 I stopped eating a lot because my mom made me feel overweight. I still don't eat all that often. If anyone has advice I appreciate it. Thank you
I'm not asking for B cup or C cup like most of my friends think when i tell them this issue. A 24 A or 32A would be nice, you know to show and feel like I'm a girl!!!! But sadly I don't have that and it may be because I was so stupid to believe my mom when she said i weighed a lot and needed to watch what i eat when i was 12 even though i was skinny, and started starving myself and i still do it sometimes
@DaughterofHades I never starved myself and I'm still flat, so it's not your fault..it's the universe...
Breasts can continue growing until you're around age 24. Just saying.
I never understood why breasts were important. Its literally fat on a chest, but somehow its important to fuss over. I shouldn't be saying anything because I fuss over how small they are a lot and how every girl I know, even those younger than me look developed up there. I'm just a disgrace and embarrassment to my mom
It's because we are animals trained by our instincts to find the finest specimen. It's sad, really, you'd think we would have progressed past that by now...
Most of us have.
@braveSugar7964 I wont believe it til I see it.
@Alystem Hey, please try not to be so pessimistic about yourself. I know it can be hard to find a guy who likes girls with less in the chest area. However, there are guys like that out there. You just haven't found your Mr. Right yet. I'm sure he'll come along. My old best friend's mother has AA breasts, and from what I've heard she and her husband are still quite happy together. They have been married for decades. Try emphasizing the parts of yourself that you find beautiful and being confident about those parts. Trust me, one of the most attractive things about a person is when they respect themselves and have confidence.
I never did understand why me having small breasts bothered me. I think it came from my mom who I hate with all my life, classmates, and being around a cousin who doesnt know that i envy her. I do try, i really do to feel good about myself. But there's a voice in the back of my head saying "you don't deserve to be happy. you deserve to suffer." I've even taught myself not to cry, and I haven't cried in weeks, and I want to cry. I do want to seek professional help. I've hated myself since i was 12 and it's only gotten worse and I'm 15 now. I'm embarassed to ask for help. I was going to see my guidance counselor today at lunch but i was scared to talk to her. I'm tired of hating myself but since I'm used to it, i continue to point out every negative in me. I can't even tell myself in the morning that I'm beautiful. It doesn't come out of my mouth. I don't like going to school which is my only escape. I'd rather spend time by myself than socialize with anyone and feel even worse about myself. And sometimes I wish i had a different mom who could love me for me and never compared me so that i didn't start starving myself, hating myself, depriving myself of sleep, trying to choke myself with a belt and etc. If she never mentioned anything about my breasts, if no one did, than i wouldn't be this way. I wouldn't care if my breasts were big or small. But people are mean and rude and all my friends say things like "boobs aren't important." "only a slut would want bigger boobs." "guys don't care." how can someone say that to me when they've NEVER gone through ANYTHING I've gone through
I think it's really brave of you to share your story! All I can say is try to remember to love the body you have and embrace the things you love about yourself :)
This is my story. Idk if it'll help, but if anyone's reading: I'm 21, and I have really small breasts.
I hated it. I'm really skinny and underweight and stuffing my bra didn't make much of a difference but I still did it sometimes.
Once I decided I didn't care about the size of my boobs things got better. If Keira Knightley could flaunt her body and lack of breasts so could I. Or at least try.
I was always teased for having a "flat chest" and being "boobless" and asked when were my boobs ever gonna grow. I'd laugh and make a joke about how I was a late bloomer. But it hurt. So much. When I was 18, a boy I liked said I had "the body of a ten year old boy". He might have added a "just kidding" after but it was mortifying.
Last year I got together with boy in my class. I realized he liked me because I was smart and funny. I realized to him, everything else was secondary. So I kissed him. When we got to second base, he kissed my boobs. My boobs were shown love for the first time. And let me tell you, it felt great.
Sure, he makes jokes about how small my boobs are every now and then, and I playfully hit him because hell, its true.
I'm still as insecure but I've just come to accept my body as it is. And that feels very liberating.
@wisegirl203 it courageous to love your body and its more courageous to share your feeling so openly! You too my heart away this time.. I respect your story in a true sense! You're damn good.. Feel good about what you have.. Love yourself and they world will love you..
Hats off to you wisegirl203! As the name suggests..
@wisegirl203
Thumbs up to you wise girl. However, if you need to get bigger boobs without surgery (naturally). I can link you up with a very powerful woman
I'm 13 and I'm Still completely flat chested most of the girls in my school have started to develop. my ht wt are the same as a 9 yr old. I don't know what all can affect breast size, but I think you could ask your doctor about it. I hope you can come to terms with it i believe we are all beautiful in our own way.