Masturbation problem
Hey all. My boyfriend of 4 years has been addicted to porn for 3 years. He told me sneaking around behind my back to get off or to watch porn was more exciting for him than having sex. His masturbation problem got to the point he wouldn't get horny when we were together. He said getting off without me knowing was more fun than our time spent together. He blamed me for his masturbation problem. Told me I wasn't what he wanted. Told me sneaking around was more exciting. Told me that I was 2nd best to his hand. When I caught him and ruined his fun sneaking around he blamed me over and over and over again. I just don't know what to do, I don't know if this is the right forum to put this. But I just need advice. I don't want to leave him I want to work things out but I'm so hurt and I don't know what to do. Please give me advice
Only thing I'll say is that this is his problem. The whole "you're not good enough" statement is a load of crap. It's important you understand that this isn't your fault, he has an addiction and a problem. Please understand that what he said to you was not okay. With that said being there and supporting in his journey to overcome this addiction is probably the best that you can do to help, but he must admit to having a problem. First step to solving a problem is admiting that you have a problem, and if he can't do that then there's not much that you can do.
