My love for abuse
Its amazing to me how I can find someone physically attractive until they speak but then by telling them how I like it they pull a 180 in a matter of seconds and all of the sudden all I want is that person.
I know exactly what you mean, my man. I used to watch porn a lot. i've had this idea that women are into sex a lot. but after quitting porn, and communicating with actual women, i've come to realize that my form of love might be more of an offense for women, so much so that it would produce unrequitted love (at best) and would defeat my purpose of pursuing or securing love for those women. for me, a good amount of love must be requitted, else it has no value for me. in fact i feel that sex, without love, is not too different than the notion of rape.
@redCanine3669 That is really interesting and I totally agree. But thats so far from what I was talking about.
I personally really enjoy being dominated, physically hurt, before and during sex. Ive been hanging out with this guy on and off for 12 years and hes always wanted to have sex with me and it was such a turn off until I told him I like pain. He pulled my hair and that was pretty much the end of us not having sex. Its just weird to me that all he had to do at some point was pull my hair to get me in bed.
@Julietlovesu415
yes. there are also some women who claim to like pain during sex and then get men in prison with charges of sexual misconduct. thats an easy snare for some men, and so that mindset and ideology is not safe for them.
it's good that you like pain though. though i personally find females not much into anything realted to sex. then again, i do tend to talk to women who are my age or older, as talking to younger inexperienced women can get me into legal trouble. but i do know there are women who like sex, even those who have cases of hormones, either through gender change or etc, which manifest into unique fetishes.
@redCanine3669 Yeah i figured it was something like that. Hes told me he can't hit a woman which um is great cause you know men who like to hit women are terrible people, but I enjoy it so it sucks for me cause I cant get off.