My relationship isn’t sexual anymore
Iv been with this girl for almost 6 months now we care and love for eachother but recent she told me she doesn’t want a sexual thing with and that she wants to with girls or guys that are fruity I guess. This has been making me feel so insecure lately. Like maybe she didn’t like the way I was preforming in bed but I always tried different things and listened to her. I also do so much her and I feel financially invested with her and emotionally so it messes with my head when she kisses me and cuddles me b it doesn’t want to have sex . I hate talking about this cAuse I sound selfish I think sorta but I feel I need to get this out
have you tried talking with her on a deeper level to find out why about the change of heart to stop sex
i do not think it is OK for a partner to say no more sex...... without a clear understanding and discussion with their partner
i see all these posts here and elsewhere ............where people are frustrated / anxious and confused about ...WHY their partner did something ......
what happened to honesty between people who think they are in love.... we should be HONEST not leave our loved one floundering about ...
why.... was it something they did .......what could they change etc....