No sex drive
I’ve been with my boyfriend 2 years. We still haven’t had we’d because it makes me so uncomfortable. We tried a few times early in the relationship but I always stopped him. I don’t really understand why, because I had a sex drive before. I can get turned on if he initiates but he never does because it makes him uncomfortable that I am. This is a constant, everyday stress on me and I don’t know what to do.
Thank you for sharing this with us here.
Try by being more intimate with him like more cuddling and kissing. I know it can be awkward but try to get into it slowly.
I am basically right there with you in that type of situation. Have you guys tried to talk together about sex/ sexual things? Or is there a lack there? Also I found out the hard way by saying nothing and stopping him every time you try it’ll make him feel like he’s less. Although, every person is different so that may not be the case. Try to be open with him about the stress to alleviate some of it off! (Look at me I really need to take my own advice here, but never seem to do) 😅