SEXTING AND THE DOWN AFTER EFFECT . HELP
I've just installed Tinder and i , i hink becaue i'm on vacation- been chatting and texting with some guys , at first i felt flattered due to all the male atention i was getting, i begun to chat with a few guys, untill i got tired of the unwanted dickpics, i blocked him, now i'm sexting with two guys, one who only wants me for my body and ask for pics, i've sent a few but nothing that can identify me , and other guy whith whom i've been having phone sex, in a sweet and tender matter. either way i'm feeling very small because i feel like i need that kind of aprooval to feel like someone, plus i feel guilty and a little afraid of what they can do with my pics, even thoush i can't be identifies in them. i'm starting to feel sad, fake, empty. - Help, i'm afraid to feel even more empty without it. so sad
@maroonmango
Don't use Tinder.
Some things you should know about Tinder is that majority of the people are only on there for sex and nudes. If you plan on finding genuine friends who are interested in you, then I recommend finding the right place online or talk to the locals there.
The thing is when you look in the wrong place with the right intentions, it's hard to find happiness. Correct your mindset and don't project yourself as something that will only be respected if you show sexual pictures of yourself. Don't objectify yourself.
The best thing you can do is try talking to the people there, you will be surprised how much you can get from initiating a conversation and putting yourself out there. I have made many quality friends and still keep contact with them to this very day.
Best~
@SenpaiXD thankyou