Sex for the first time
Hey everyone, I am going to lose my virginity either this week or next week, i am not sure but do any of yall have any tips ? for context I am male and I am 19, my *** is small so like 4 inches max, I am kind of scared to put it inside a woman, any tips on how to make it enjoyable and not weird ?
just be yourself and be confident! I can say as a woman size doesn’t matter !
Make sure you are clean and are using protection
Also mane sure you have each other’s consent in each phase
Enjoy your experience
:)
@ZoomerZ2003
Choose the right time
The most important thing is to pick the right time: when both partners are ready, want to become closer to each other and take their relationship to the next level.
Talk
Conversation plays a big role for both men and women. A good conversation before and after sex is the key to peace, emotional intimacy and trust.
Especially afterward, when the two of you have shared such a bonding experience, take the time to relax with your partner. There are few things more intimate in the world than good, post-coital pillow talk.
Don’t hesitate to give tips
If you have sexual experience, then don’t hesitate to gently advise your partner on what you like and don’t like. If you don’t like something, don’t hesitate to say so or tell them how they could improve.
@ZoomerZ2003
Enjoy :)
@ZoomerZ2003
Sex is an intimate act, at least it should be. So pick a spot where both of you will be uninhibited, especially if it s your first time. Pick a place that is private and has a comfortable place to have sex in. A good soft bed with mood lighting always helps the cause .
The first step towards physical intimacy is kissing. Moreover being close, kissing, touching and caressing your partner helps stimulate their erogenous zones which will lead to more pleasurable sex. It also leads to a stronger sense of closeness and safety two emotions that help a person perform better in bed. So touch him/her, kiss and make your partner wanted. This is also another way to help quell the person s body image issues (if they have any), making them more comfortable in your presence.
Have a lot of foreplay: This is where you can either choose to remove your clothes or have your partner undress you. Another way to go about it is to remove one piece of clothing at a time, making the entire process a mystery. When it comes to foreplay, most people think that sex is only penetrative. But the act does include foreplay. Foreplay, as the name suggests is what you do before you have sex. It includes fondling, kissing, stimulating your partner s erogenous zones and oral sex as well. Make sure you get enough of this in. It is often the most enjoyable part of the whole sexual experience because the two of you can experiment with a number of methods.
The right moment to have penetrative sex is usually felt and is often mutual. Pick the moment when your partner really wants to move on to the next step. In some cases asking if the other person is ready or if he/she wants more is a good way to know when it s time.
Insertion: This is the most hyped part about sex and is often believed to be the only thing that happens during it. But there s nothing further from the truth. In this step the *** is inserted into the ***. Men can thrust the *** into her ***) in rhythmic motions and do it from the hip; this will ensure your woman gets the maximum pleasure. Moving your entire body is counterproductive. Most importantly listen to your partner and your body. Allow yourself to feel pleasure and make sure you take your partner s pleasure into consideration and make her happy too.
Once you both have climaxed or the sex is about to get over, you both will most probably be in a state of elation. Allow yourselves to be in that state for as long as you need to be. Remember this is the phase where you can choose to hold each other or simply be next to each other. Don t rush things; let your body come back to its normal state.