What are your kinks or fetishes?
This is a non-judgemental place to share what things turn you on.
Rules:
1. Stay general
2. no specifics or extreme graphicness
S&m I like to be the one in control. Bondage,spanki spanking, so forth.
Hardsports fucking with my mind.
Wow, you all are having so much fun, im isolated at home. How do i get out to meet fun people like you all?😁
@physalisBerries72
I always wonder that myself 😋😄
daddy isues
dom and sub
little and big
@brokenlosttired
@brokenlosttired
being choked
tie ups
pushment
Ooo babes I have too many. I love BDSM. And being dominated in the bedroom. I love bondage, breath play, and impact play. I have gone as far as needle play! Unless its a girl joing my bf and I in a three some (love those too) I want to dominate her. Im talking about bondage, some spanking , maybe Fuck her with a strap on. Those kind of things. Also I dont know why everyone hates an anal so much?! I find it pretty fun
@versatileWillow6442
Yeah, anal's fun (not orgasmic, but fun)
Cuckold and scat
I'm a submissive so love to be dominated... handcuffed, collared, tied down, slapped, choked etc.
i also consider myself a cok worshipper... love cok, everything about it, sucking, licking, kissing, deep throating, gaging, choking, swallowing cum etc.
@considerateWheel7080
chills
@?
lol can't help my kinks there just a part of me ;)
Yeessss
I think I need to explore my sex life further. But for some weird reason I like trading and all.
@?
if you can't get what you desire from your lover/spouse I don't see a problem with finding someone who can. Unfortunately u don't always end up with someone who can give you what your sexual desires are... so for that part alone trading is good...
@considerateWheel7080 I agreee. One doesn't always get everything we need, especially kinks-wise, from our life partners.
@creativeEnergy61
exactly... sometimes I feel that what I want or expect is too much? But my partner is also very selfish in the bedroom! Unless he wants it he won't indulge me otherwise! I have an extremely high sex drive and once a week or so isn't cutting it! I spend most nights alone with porn and my toys... I need to find someone who will push my boundaries...
@considerateWheel7080 I empathize. I get laid maybe 1-2 times a month. He masturbates constantly though. He's too lazy to actually have sex.
@considerateWheel7080
Been there. It's what it's. I find talking about it and letting the thought go helpful at times
@considerateWheel7080
If you feel like talking about this, I'm here.
I like being spanked, whipped, paddled all over. I like being strangled really hard with hands or items like belts or ties. I enjoy being dominated and ordered to do things while being degraded. I really love being restrained and would love to do some predator/prey scenes. Unfortunately, I am married to a severely vanilla man that only enjoys missionary or being ridden with not a lot of touching or fun. It is frustrating. He's indulged me a couple of times, but is really uncomfortable with it.
@toughWater1409
omg I'm in the same boat! My husband acts like he can dominate but when it comes down to it fuk sex is so boring! Last week while giving him head I asked him to pull my hair hard and yank my mouth off his cok, he did then I asked him to slap me each time I told him I wanted it harder.. I enjoyed every second of it but after that small instance he was back enjoying himself! Don't get me wrong I love giving head but my ultimate fetish is submission... I want to be a slave, I want to have a master that can dominate me and tell me what to do and punish me and push my boundaries! It's extremely frustrating!! I also love porn and watching it just makes me want it so much more!!!
@considerateWheel7080 he gets so mad at me, because he considers me playing with myself the ultimate sexy thing. I get tired of that being his only idea of fun so I don't always do it when he wants me too. I actually don't enjoy masturbation, and I laugh when he gets offended by that. I don't think cheating is ever the answer, but if you can have an open marriage I guess it's possible to step outside to get your needs met.
@toughWater1409
i wasn't into masturbation or porn either I was actually quite shy about it but as of late I just can't stop doing it and I can't stop watching porn.. I've even started filming myself taking sexy photos etc. I don't know wtf happened but it's like a switched flicked in my head and my sex drive is high - I don't want emotional connection I just want to get what I desire! By someone who desires me and wants me... unfortunately I don't think that's my husband... there is only some many times I can try - now I give up and take care of myself...
@considerateWheel7080
I am here currently and I believe talking is the best thing sometimes. I feel that's the reason you vented out. That's the reason why I could relate so much to these messages that I felt like replying. Grouping up together helps and especially after this lockdown it's more mental than physical
@toughWater1409 Yes, it's really hard for vanilla partners to understand our kinks, and get involved in our play. I feel your pain there!
@creativeEnergy61
what's our option? To look outside our spouses/ partner to get what we need?
@considerateWheel7080 Yes, ideally with our partners consent and full engagement of course, but that's rarely possible. Lots of things to consider and its not an simple area..
Is an open relationship with kink worse rather than ending your existing vanilla relationship to find another more compatible partner?
Will opening your relationship make your vanilla partner miserable?
Impact of playing without ones partner consent..(your own guilt, hurting your partner etc)
Lots of think about isn't there?!
@creativeEnergy61
what do u do?
This one might be a bit different, quicksand
@Username196
Intersting
@Username196
You're not alone in that at all. I like mud.
forced into submission, bdsm, knife play, breath play, public, pain, degrading, size difference, ddlg,
@itsjustmyaB oh and group stuff where i am the only female, dp, and being spit on
