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What to do if unsatisfied?

User Profile: Hello365
Hello365 June 18th, 2017

What should one do if in a marriage he/she is unsatisfied sexually??

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User Profile: Sventek
Sventek June 20th, 2017

@Hello365

The absolute first step is to talk to your partner and try to work this out between yourselves.

If you're both unable to unwilling to work this out with one another, a therapist might be your best option.

If the situation is not just workable, sexual compatibility might be part of the cause. Typically, when there is a strong sexual incompatibility - there isn't much that can be done if you've tried all the above. While it's nice to say that sex doesn't matter and it's not an important part of the relationship, it's rare for BOTH in a relationship to feel the same way about the topic.

Sexual inexperience might also be an issue here - hard to tell given that you only asked a question without any detail.