Why does she not want me

@JPphotography

If she makes you feel that perhaps she need to feel better about herself ......

some people try to knock others down to think that makes them look better. You can ask her or try to really see if she is insecure so wants you to be too.

@JPphotography

Why do you want to be with someone who doesn’t want you …?

If 5 years from now she still made you feel this way, would you feel regret? Would you still stay this way (with her) for the next 20 years knowing that this is how you will feel - small, insignificant, unwanted?

You are half the relationship. She’s in your life because you allow it; you chose her at some point. What happens next? You choose that for yourself also.

If someone told me tomorrow that I was a sheep, would I start eating grass? No. Because I decide who and what I am, no one else. She can only ‘make’ you feel small if part of you believes that you are small, if you allow her to do it.

Know your own worth. Have confidence in who you are! You’re in control. You make the decisions for what you want to feel each day, who you want to be. Let her discouragement be drowned out by the ROAR of your own conviction! If she can’t be supportive then she can be nothing to you at all. Surround yourself with people that improve you. Choose people that choose you!

CatsInTheCradle

I want her and have told her how I feel and we've been less and less sexually involved

Time to move on.

@JPphotography

I’m sorry to hear that. Would you care to elaborate a little bit more? It’s certainly not right that she makes you feel small. Message me and we can talk about this further.

@JPphotography

So does my boyfriend! I feel like I'm nothing, not good enough, and like the worst person in the world.