After 4 years the outcome is uncertain.
After 4 years of dating and 3 years of lviing together the stress of our relationship (28 m+f) has pushed us to a breaking point. She says we need a break, mental health plays a strong role in the issues we face, our bond of trust has also been whittled down and i think that the state of the world, unsatisfactory job/finances, and A difficulty to forgive ourselfs and eachother for the issues that face us.
Love is there but some.life goals dont always mesh, mainly on my part and that creates a feeling of resentment even if there is none.
IDK what will cone of this, i want nothing more then our life together to continue, but if she truly doesn't feel that it is worth it then how can i stand in her way of life.
My heart is well shattered, takes everything i have to not fight tooth and nail for the relationship. but life just never gives anything
@AlfonosValeri
I get the picture. That's 7 years together. The novelty may have started fading. Sadly, it somewhat common for longterm relationship.
How was it when it started? The excitement to understand each other better, tolerated the flaws, and perhaps adjusted your schedules and goals too?
How are you both going to ignite the novelty again? Both, because it takes 2 to tango.
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