Alone
Hi, I’m a senior in high school, being remote is already hard enough but at the start of this year my friends of 13 years dropped me. I have been alone for months now and I’ve been struggling. I have a therapist but how is she gonna help me feel not alone when I literally have no more friends? I’ve struggled with suicide and depression for years and with my friends dropping me it has intensified. I’m tired of being alone. I just want to have a friend again.
You’ll eventually have many later or you already had many friends here in 7cups!!! Welcome we’re always here for you.
Hi. Cityzen. We are here for you. Those who are written in your life will stay, no matter what. Here for you
I’m sorry Op. I’ve been in a similar situation except I transferred to online school by choice & I was the one who dropped all of my friends. So I dealt with great loneliness— still am, but now I enjoy being alone it has its benefits. I want you to know that in this current moment, loneliness and what you’re going through seems like the biggest thing. But this situation is fleeting, time is on your side. Seriously in 5 years, you’ll look back and hopefully will grow an appreciation for what you went through. This particular situation might help you grow in many ways as a person. There is a greater plan out there for you. There will be better days, I promise.
I totally get that. Im in a really similar position. All I want are friends and people to talk to and yet I dont have anyone.
@emotionalCity5788 I am in a similar position. I only had a handful of friends and 2 of them ended recently. But you will discover that there are plenty of things to enjoy in your own company. Try different hobbies and you'll see you have started to enjoy your own company. It'll suck in the beginning but I promise you it gets better. And when you become self sufficient like that, the right people will start entering your life. I was so desperate to not be alone, that I was friends with people who I knew was not good for me. But soon I realized there is something even worse than being alone. And that is to be around the wrong people. Build yourself up and stay very patient, you will find good company.
Hey! I am here if you need me. I don't have friends irl either at the moment. Thank you for keep going! You're very strong