Am I just overthinking or she really isn't into me anymore?
I have been with my girlfriend for five years and with all those years, she never failed in loving me and showing how much she does. However, just recently, things have changed. She used to be so sweet. She never misses a day to message me before, but now she barely even texts me. She used to call me all the time asking if I have already eaten and whatnots, yet now she does not seem to want to talk to me anymore. I can
@overthinking125 Hey i feel you just openly speak to her about how you feel and ask her to be open with you too. Sometimes we may think we know someones thought only to be surprised.
@overthinking125 Maybe she's going through stuff right now? Or now that the "newness" of the relationship has worn off, she's not going to ask if you've eaten and all that? Have you tried talking to her?
@overthinking125
Hey there, hopefully you are doing well. Theres a few things I would like to point out;
I have been with my girlfriend for five years and with all those years, she never failed in loving me and showing how much she does. However, just recently, things have changed. (This could mean she is either losing interest, pulling away from you or genuinely busy, but i suspect more the first two. Women will pull away at some point even if things are going well, so its important to learn how to soothe your anxiety) She used to be so sweet. She never misses a day to message me before, but now she barely even texts me. (I hope you share more information about this part because I can only go on speculation. I believe she pulled away from you various times which madr you reach out to her out of anxiety?)She used to call me all the time asking if I have already eaten and whatnots, yet now she does not seem to want to talk to me anymore. (She is definetly pulling away from you, its very important to stay calm and confident without bringing this up to her because it could cause her attraction to lower. Its also very important to let her come to you even though you will feel tons of anxiety not hearing from her). I cant help but think that shes not into me anymore. (I dont think so, but theres a chance you might be doing or saying things that are turning her off) I dont know if this is true or if I am just overthinking? (I feel like she is pulling away from you, so its triggering your anxiety which makes it hard to reduce it and then it makes you do and say things to pull her closer. Learning how to manage the anxiety is key here)
