Am I wrong?
This guy I have been talking to for some months now it was going good you know he reslly understood me didn’t judge for my depression understood my anxiety he got me I told him abt me being a very insecure person he knows that yet I found out today that he was following girls on all socials and there nothing like me even tho he told me he wanted me to be his girlfriend and that I was the only one he wanted but I found his type and he told me he didn’t have one but I feel as tho that’s a life Bevause the girls he follows there pretty and perfect body’s and it sucks knowing I’m not his type…. Am I in the wrong for feeling like this? I don’t know what to do! Any advice would help
@practicalCurrent5193
You're not wrong for feeling the way you do Current. It sucks that you had to find out what he was doing in that manner. Do you feel as though that you two are comfortable with each other to tell how you're feeling about what you found it. Overthinking about this too much makes many things harder for you as you continue in the relationship. It would help if you are able to communicate with him to see how he feels about you truly.
I don’t think you’re wrong for feeling this way at all. I would only worry if they’re like local girls he could start talking to. If they’re Instagram famous or like girls that he’s probably following just because you’re hot, it’s still wrong and still hurts but it might not necessarily mean that he doesn’t want to be with you or ur not his type. Guys are so visual and it sucks especially when you’re trying to be with someone and it seems like all they care about is following new girls on social media. But I would just try to talk to him about it. Just be honest and ask him if those girls mean anything to him (especially if they’re local girls or girls he knows or wants to know). Just tell him how you feel, and if he’s the right one he’ll stop doing it because of the way it makes you feel
