Bet ya’ll never created this kinda mess!

shortest version possible. 13 your girl meets 12-year-old boy they date all through junior high, all through high school. Then said girl said boy have their first child when they are 17 and 18 (1992 btw!) have their second child when they are 20 and 19, and have their third child when they are 22 and 21. Said boy and said girl than Get married when they are 23 and 24.

At 26 said girl takes the kids and moves to the opposite coast to start over because said boy has chose drugs. Here’s the fun part…..

Girl raises kiddies, has a 16 year relationship with someone else and then life kicked my a$* and I moved back to the coast I started at. AND YES it took only 2 weeks to reunite with said boy who I hadn’t seen or heard from in 8 year oh and guess what we never divorced! So we have been back together for a year now and technically we’re married for 25 years last month although had been a part for 16. It’s been very odd getting to know my “husband “ again and my adult kids getting to know their dad but today while my husband was driving cross country to see his brother who is in the hospital dying and only in his 40s was pulled over to find out he had an arrest warrant from eight years ago and he’s now looking at five years on the other side of the country. You can clearly see the mess and the trauma my adult children and I are now trying to figure out how to get through after having such an amazing thing for a year and once again it’s been taken from us!