Cant get over my crush
I have a crush on my first cousin from 6 years and I cant get over him .. he is a playboy he flirts with me but he is never serious he also knows that I like him .. I want to get over him but I always meet him family functions
@straightforwardBalloon5991
thank you for reaching out and im glad you are being honest, for most people feelings are just feelings and they cannot control that, one way for a person to change their feelings about something or someone is to find a new 'perspective' moving on and letting go is not usually our choice but sometimes we grow out of a stage where we understand something or someone is not whats best for us anymore, the same thing goes to changing jobs or places for the best, i hope you can find your self a way to discard those feelings.
another way to let go of a feeling or behavior is to make yourself busy with something like school or work, or probably another circle of friends .
i hope you can find good support and proper help listeners here, you can also ask around within 7 cups community about 'perspective' its something most listeners here understands very well.
thank you for sharing and i hope you more happiness and joy .