Caught between two
Long long long story made short. Me and my current bf have been together for nearly 7 years now with breaks in between. About a year ago we broke up for a year and within that time frame I met someone new. However I never told him and I continued to speak to both of them (I wasn’t dating), of course I know that was wrong of me and I’ve done a lot of self reflecting but now I’m trying to understand my emotions… they ended up finding out about eachother as time has it and asked me who I wanted. In the end I picked my ex who was my bf and is now my bf again. However… why can I not get this other guy out of my head…. I don’t know how I feel or how to deal with these thoughts and emotions..
Write down all your emotions regarding each one separately. Then write what you want in this relationship and see for yourself how you feel. Hope this helps.
relationships are hard and when you add in a third party even more so.
You made your choice and it is natural to still have feelings .... what ifs
i see on this site and others suggestions to treat relationships like a hiring process.....have you ever worked and someone left a job and whomever took the job next did it differently ..... some people resist the change they want things to stay the same .......but it all works out even if they approach things differently
pros and cons do not work in love.... the best prospect may not be enough.
