HELP
my wife has super anger issues and when we get into agreements she throws things and runs out the house and screams. She gets so into what shes agruing about that she cant talk calmly and yells. She can take small things out of proportion and it turns into this huge thing. How can i de-escalate things/her and get her to be calm and even remotely see things my way?
@unicornpony
I'm sorry you have to put up with this behaviour, it is unfair for you to have to deal with this. Is she getting any help with her anger issues? If not, that may be a good first step for both of you, though getting her to get help may be an issue in itself. Have you considered seeing a marital therapist? Seeing a professional will allow her to control her anger and talk calmly through things with you, in a safe environment.
@SilentSerenityy I appreciate the response thankyou. She actually starts her first therapy session today and i start me soon as well. Things are actually significantly better and happier
@unicornpony
That's great! I'm happy to hear it and I wish you both well :)