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Hanging out with ex-gf's friends. Tips?

User Profile: feltbetter
feltbetter July 31st, 2018

I feel sad for our friends who got caught in between me and my gfs break up. Technically, they were her friends until I got introduced to them. Weve made our own bond and I now consider them as my buddies too. Ive talked to one of them recently and he said he missed the Sunday bbqs at each others houses. He said he wished we could all all hang out and none of it (our break up) would matter.

I dont like the feeling of burdening people with the events of my life. I told him we could all still hangout if shes (my ex) already comfortable with it. I think the last time we all hung out was during the new years party dating service celebration we had early 2018. So my friend said hell plan a day for us to get together again. Was I wrong to say it was fine to hangout with them? They were her friends first not mine.

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User Profile: Remina
Remina July 31st, 2018

@feltbetter

Definitely not in the wrong to hang out with them. They might have been friends with your ex first, but your ex does not own these people. They are also your friends. Hopefully, your breakup will get to a point where you all can hangout amicably if that is something you would want.