Help! IDK if there is any hope left :-(
so my boyfriend suffers from horrible horrible trust issues from his prior relationship.. and over time it has completely changed his image of me.. I am absolutely every terrible thing a person can do in a relationship all rolled up into one and I get treated like it too.. he tries.. but he is literally night and day from himself it's like a whole different person how do I know when to give up and stop fighting? He is the absolute love of my life and when he is not in his head we are more than perfect. I just don't really know how much more roller coaster I can take it's not fair.. I have so many emotions anger hatred sadness pain fear.. idek had a comprehend them much less deal with them appropriately but almost every single day I either am falling back in love with him like when we first met or getting my heart ripped out and decimated.. there is no real in between
any advice?
Hiii @sociableKite2196
Thank you for sharing your story and reaching out. I know it can be alot to handle and take on when it feels like you're juggling so much in your relationship. I understand that your boyfriend has many trust issues and it feel like its weighing you down. I don't think anyone can really give you an advice on what to do because you're the expert on you and your relationship. Open and honest communication with your partner can help ease things.. and if you're open to it, there's always couples therapy. In the end, the decision is yours. I hope you're well and doing okay.
Please feel free to reach out to me or any free listener! We're here for you!
Take care ! <3