He’s not perfect but I love him
Ive been dealing with depression lately. My husband and I are newly wedded. my husband was horrible when we first started dating and he’s changed so much. He used to save girl’s pictures on Instagram. I knew of the girls and I confronted him about it, we talked about it we got over it and we didn’t have a problem anymore. Another time she was working and I caught him and her just starring at each other. Told him how I felt and he wouldn’t do it again. Today I went through this phone and realized that he has been watching her vlog. We got into it and I told him why and after forcing it out of him he said she is “cute” and I don’t know how to handle this. I love him so much, I don’t know what to do.
@versatileGrapefruit4389
THank you for sharing thank you for reaching out and being here.
It must be stressful and heavy feeling bearing where you are in right now, but dear, let me communicate with you this, your husband may have a downfall but I think just hearing from you, I think it's more of a self work that needs to be done.
If you will allow me to suggest, take time and answer these questions..
- What do I fear, take notes, make it specific
Then after a decents time of contemplating and journalling, talk about this, both should be ready to listen
I suggest you read about boundaries by Dr. Townsend it is an outstanding book.
I hope I helped a bit 🙏🏽💛