I’m lost
My ex and I “broke up” around February last year but we still kept talking daily since then for about a year. We knew it was wrong and kept it secret from everyone. We relied on each other’s support a lot through quarantine and basically had a “fake” relationship the entire time. We’ve argued a lot and we both know we aren’t going to end up together but she’s blaming me for wasting her time the entire year. She wants to stop talking like we do but whenever I bring it up she lashes out on me and says terrible things and I’m not sure what to do. We’ve tried to stop talking before because we know it’s unhealthy but she freaks out every time and says I’ve wasted her time and lll never change. At this point I know we can’t keep talking but there’s no way for me to end it without her getting wildly angry at me for everything.
Block her. Sounds cold but it’s a lot better for two people to move on in that way. I tried to be friends with my ex too even when I moved on and started dating someone else I tried to be his friend but one day I randomly just snapped out of it. I saw we didn’t get along as well as i thought and that we had completely different views on life. It made me see the person I was trying to be friends with actually had nothing in common with me and was everything i didn’t want to be. I also saw I was making my bf uncomfortable even if he didn’t say it. It just finally felt like the right time to let go. I didn’t explain anything. We had a disagreement and I just left.