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I’m so confused

I’ve been in my current relationship close to 2 years now, he has a child from a previous relationship, I adore his child very much, we get along, his kid loves and tells me so often. He wonders why I have to go sometimes and if I’m not there he asks when I’ll get there. He doesn’t have his son all the time, his kiddo lives with mom, but me and my boyfriend are moving in together and he hasn’t told his son yet, he doesn’t want to sleep in the same bedroom when his son is over even tho he’s seen us stay together before so I’m not sure if I’m just being to sensitive.

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User Profile: Whimsical08
Whimsical08 May 4th, 2021

If you are uncomfortable being a secret you should communicate that to your significant other

He's feeling parent guilt and also doesn't have a blueprint on how to navigate dating as a single parent. I suggest counseling to help both of you gain perspective on how to continue on this journey together.