Insecure and Jealous
I have major insecurities that sometimes harms my relationship, and I’m also jealous/anxious that he is going to leave me for someone else. I can’t seem to work out how to believe in my own self worth and to limit the insecurities that I display so openly. Any advice welcome
@charlieskittles
Hello there, firstly a big fist bump for creating this post, seeking for support on cups . So very courageous of you to ask for help ❤
I can understand, how your feelings of insecurities and jealousy affect your relationship, and sometimes make you feel that your partner may leave you. When we are attached to someone and love them, it's bound to feel a certain fear , that what if we lose them, at the end of the day, our insecurities are our own and rightly said, it's important we work on them , so it doesn't affect the relationship or you . Maybe you just need some extra assurity that y'alls relationship is going well and he won't leave you and loves you the same , as how you are . All we need sometimes is a little assurance, some patience and much love . It's so valid to feel insecure and less confident, but yes, you're right, you're amazing and it's so important to remind yourself that again and again. ❤
How do you feel about talking to your partner regarding your feelings ? Do you think they'll try and understand your needs and support you more with them , making you feel more comfortable.
I am glad you're here, and I wish all turns out for the best for you. Don't forget to love yourself each day too, you definitely deserve it and more . Much love and hugs 😊❤