Insecurity
It makes me feel so insecure whenever my bf calls other girl or even a fictional character cute or pretty. Idk why but I keep comparing myself to those girls that he thought was cute and pretty. What if i'm not as good as them? What if my bf like those fictional characters more than me? I know it may sounds stupid but it makes me feel like I'm not good enough. I'm anxious and scared sometimes. What if my bf doesn't like me anymore? it makes overthink soo much. Is this a red flag? am I the problem? am i just being overdramatic?
@sushisushi111 Thank you for sharing first of all. What I'm really hearing is that you feel silly for perhaps your feeling of insecurity when your boyfriend says a fictional character is attractive. Maybe reflect on your past experiences - experienced issues where you feel your boyfriend is being too flirty or pays more attention to other girls than yourself. That's one thing you can ask yourself. You are torn between thinking of the possibility you maybe being unreasonable or that your boyfriend is showing a red flag. It maybe good to think about your past relationships - what are your boundaries? Do you normally feel like someone will reject you or abandon you? On our site we have listeners you can communicate with or even therapists if you want a more expertised person who knows a great deal about certain mental health conditions. I wish you the best and take care.