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I thought that she was my friend

User Profile: Summershy
Summershy March 4th, 2024

On Friday, I received backlash from someone who I went to school with back in the day.  This followed a letter that I had sent to her best friend, who happened to be extremely toxic and immature.   For instance, her BFF has been a fake friend to me in the past.    She has also been known to stir things up. 

Anyway, things seemed to go well between this other "Friend" and me until I confronted her BFF  for the way that she had treated me in the past.   I also put it in the letter that I didn't want to connect with this person because I didn't like how she had treated me in the past.

This "Friend" attacked me on my social media messenger last week.   She said that her BFF was accusing me of sending her a nasty letter.   She also said that she was going to choose her BFF over me and didn't want to talk to me anymore.  Additionally, it was "Do not ever send her another letter," and then started accusing me of being unforgiving.    What? 

Still, I set firm boundaries with her and decided that she is not a friend. 

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User Profile: 181005
181005 March 5th, 2024

@Summershy Oh! It's sad to hear that there have been problems between your friend and you due to a third person's interference. I know how it would've felt. But it's good that you recognised the situation and decided to firm up the boundaries and take care of yourself❤. 

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User Profile: Summershy
Summershy OP March 5th, 2024

I confronted her BFF because this person wasn’t ever a good friend to me. However, she doesn’t want to own up to it. Instead, she seems more concerned that I sent her a nasty letter.


As for the person who is choosing her bff over me, she’s no friend, period. I am really sad about that, however, she’s a follower

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