I want to get away from here

OK so long story short a year and a half ago my boyfriend, of 9 years at the time, decided that we should save up to buy a house. We, I, got a little over zellus about it and we started house hunting WAY too earlier. We stopped house hunting for a fee months between August and December 2016 but kept saving money. I decided I wanted to live near my friend In CO so we took a trip out there, loved it but my boyfriend doesn't have a job out there so he refuses to move. We are $10,000 away from a 10% down payment but due to all of the stress this has caused me, the major up and down mood swings, I dont want to save anymore because I'm unsure if we will ever move out. It has put a major damper one the relationship, cause too much anxiety and depression for me to the point where I feel like we should break up. I've told him what I want a million and one times over the past year and a half, he obviously doesn't listen. My question is what should I do? Should I keep saving? Or should I take a break, cut my hours at work and just try and be Happy here?