Just tired
I have been in a 2 year relationship with my girlfriend. We had recently gotten into a argument. We made up and are still together. She currently has me block on all social media. I have talked to here about adding me back on there but she keeps saying that she will add me when she feel I have change mentally. She said she isn’t going to add me cause I want too. She will add me when I change. When I stop being insecure, jealous. I had a friend log onto her social media and seen that she has her exes on there and a whole lot more guys that weren’t there before. I told her to please respect me and our relationship by not having her exes on there. Her response was “I can have whoever I want on there, I can have whatever conversation I want with anyone. So don’t tell me what to do” I just need someone to hear me out or give me some advice
@azureBeing6160 It must be hard not to let your insecurities and jealousy sabotage the relationship. But asking a friend to check on her social medias might have lessened her trust in you. Maybe you can let her know that you are trying to be more trusting, but you can do so more quickly with her help, by not contacting her exes for a while? Many couples agree not to worry their partner by keeping in touch with exes, so it's not an unreasonable thing to ask. Good luck.
