Learning how to trust!! I NEED ADVICE!!
I'm Alex, I'm 18 and I'm dating a fart boy.
He is really smart and is studying architecture and I'm major in education. He introverted and I'm extroverted we are opposites but we make things work. I have had a really hard time with the men in my past. I had an emotionaly abusive father and a cheating boyfriend so have have little to no trust in me. He knows about these thing and that I struggle with this and I have really had my guard up and have questioned everything but he has been patient with me through it all. Just everything he dose makes me nervous. When he treats me nice, when he cares and listens, and when he says sweet things. How do I let him in cause he makes me happy but I'm scared what if I'm all wrong. I really want to maybe even marry him but my reality is that I'm so scared I Will get used agian. He says we are going slow and that is because his last girlfriend broke his heart and I need to learn how to trust again so it's a win win. Also during this virus outbreak he is stay in the frat house even though his campus is closed. That also worries me but he says he likes it there and it's where he is happy. We also go to different school too and he is in a frat and surrounded by beautiful girls I'm just worried I'm not enough
my question is how to I let him in?
how do I take the risk in love?
how do I get past this cause I do live him?
How do I stop being scared?
@yellowBlackberry2117
I think one of the best things you can do for yourself, is be patient. Take small steps towards what you'd like to achieve and allow yourself the time to recover from past trauma
I'm Danielle and I'm 28 years old I recently Got married to a man I barely even known at first I was In love opened up to him and my past and why I have Trust issues, one month after getting hitched I caught him cheating through text I tried Forgiving him but I cant We had three physical altercations since I'm not sure if I really Want to be with him any more it drives me crazy cause I have A child from a previous relationship that He raise as his own but we live like roommates I'm no longer into him sexually we don't kiss nor make love I'm always angry and accusing him I love Him just not in love with him but he claims he's in love with me and does try to prove it but I know I'm the problem
