Long distance heartbreak
I’ve been with my boyfriend for only 4 months. I met him when he was living in my state but he moved to another state for college and it was going pretty well (i thought). he started acting weird with me like 3 weeks ago: completely ignoring me but being active on social media, constantly out with friends until 2-3 in the morning, hardly talking to me at all throughout the day. i just discovered he hung out with this girl and she was wearing her halloween costume, (not necessarily appropriate) and I told him how I felt and he acted apologetic, then told me he was gonna go do something and hasn’t texted me again. I decided to stalk his account and found out they’ve been hanging out and he’s been liking her posts; he then posted pictures of their cars and they’re being pretty flirty (in my eyes) in the comment section.. he deleted the pictures of mine and his cars together. so now he has a picture of their cars, and I’m nowhere to be found. He also took off the pictures of himself that I had commented on. I have literally nobody to talk to anymore because I feel like I’m being so annoying and I just feel so alone. I don’t know what to do anymore.
My chest hurt just reading this. Oh my word I have been through this. Honestly, if I could go back to a younger me and give myself advice. I would say end it now with a clean break up. There are SOoooooooooooo many guys out there. He ain't worth it.
I've been the embarrassing annoying girl before because I thought I was "in love" and that it would last so I hung on with an iron grip. But dear goodness looking back I wish j had some graze and dignity to in friend them, and walk away like the winner with my head held high.
yes, i’m holding on tight too and trying my best to still put in that effort to keep us going but i just don’t feel it being reciprocated. he says he still loves me, but i just personally don’t feel it anymore because of his actions. i feel like i’m not important to him anymore, no matter how many times he says i am, because he changed and isn’t even the same person that i fell for. i also feel like he’s not breaking up with me only because he doesn’t wanna see me with another guy (he said something regarding this the other day), so i guess he’s keeping me around and hanging with plenty of other girls, while i do my own thing because i legit have no friends. how did you build up the courage to do anything, i don’t wanna get more hurt.
