Marraige advice
Hi, i kind of need support and advice
The thing is i have been married from three years. And i do not feel loved at all. In first few months it was fine when we moved back to his home country he became a different person.
In this marraige its me who made all compromises moved in with him and his family(toxic at some levels) leavng my family and friends behind. Leaving my career behind. But still he does not appreciate me. Or evem bother to listen to me. All he said is i am depressive and negative. We have a kid together and its break my heart that what kind of family i am going to give him.
I tried talk to him, he just say sorry, change his behavior for like 2/3 days and thats it.
I feel like i am stucked in a situation where there is a no way out.
I dont wamt to give my kid a broken family. I can not pretend. He is little when he grow up. It will effect his personality.
It hurts like hell. But i dont know what to do.
Any advice? Or anything.
@Theamani
look into the 5 love languages. You both are probably communicating very differently. That can really be a hindrance. Especially when you're basically speaking a different (love) language. Try to understand things from his point of view as well. If you are just starting to bring up all these comprimises (which can be jarring or painful for him) or are always talking about them, without looking into options to change or improve the situation, then that's not helpful either. If you want to work, go back to work. If you want to try to make this work, look into effective communication for couples and try to work together, there's give & take in that, from both sides. Google has tons of resources for research/Learning.
Well you really give me a good reality chexk. Thanks. I will look for it.
@SambitiousOcean42