My wife is unhapppy in life

Hi,

me and wife have known each other for 6 years now and have been through some great moments together, she is the absolute love of my life and I haven’t loved anybody else ans cannot even bare thought of having a life without her in it.

however it is clear that I have failed her in so many ways and as much as I keep trying to make her happy and give her the life she deserved I keep messing up, I hate myself and am so frustrated at why just why?!?!?

firstly she lost her job during covid and has moved in with me and my parents until we can both save enough to move in to our own place, secondly she has suffered numerous health issues relating to her uterus and gone under the knife twice, she has a less than average chance of having children because of this, thirdly we have just come to a place where we can start to re build and grow and move forward from my horrendous affair, I carry the guilt and shame everyday and everyday I appreciate and cherish my wife even more and more

but to top the *** show of our whole relationship, my father in law has gone and drunkerdly said horrible things to my wife and the following day gone further to say that he meant them!

we are living under their roof and my wife knows she wants to be respectful so to bide the time until we leave

I’m torn I love my parents but so disappointed in why they said this to my wife I love my wife and just want to see her happy again it killls me knowing me and my family are the source of her unhappiness

she has had enough today and wants to leave the house and not come back

im borderline need an ambulance my breathing is laboured I’m feeling physical pain dry heaving I don’t react well to stress

I don’t know what to do :(