Need help
Hey everyone I’m new to this. Me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday after being together over a year. Me and his family hasn’t gotten along for a while because his mom has major control issues over him. He told me he was stressed to the max and said he needed some time by himself to figure himself out away from the relationship. I want to understand that but I’m really hurting right now and not sure what to do
@Emmiegurl1993
Hello Emmie 🌻
Thank you for reaching out on the forums ✨
I understand that you have been in a relationship with your partner for over a year, but due to some reasons, your partner wanted to take some time out and figure things out on his own. It can be hurtful, confusing, frustrating, etc. - a mix of emotions when one isn’t involved in the problem solving process together, or the breakup as a whole.
However, it’s great that you would like to process things out, and talking about this with someone here may help you out a lot. I understand it’s been a while since you have posted here, but have you tried browsing for listeners for 1-on-1 support regarding this? You can search for listeners who chat about specific topics you’d like (e.g. Topic: Breakup, Relationship Stress), from “Browse for Listeners” Link. I have set the default to “Verified Listeners”, you can change the filters however you’d like.
I hope you can find support here ✨